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20 Anonymous Questions to Ask Your ex

Looking for good anonymous questions to ask your ex? Here are 20 that are honest and closure-seeking. Use them in a Story game or send them through an anonymous link.

20 questions to ask your ex

  • What do you think really went wrong?
  • Do you have any regrets about us?
  • What did you learn from our relationship?
  • What is something you never told me?
  • What is your favorite memory of us?
  • Do you think we could ever be friends?
  • What is one thing you wish you had done differently?
  • What did I teach you about yourself?
  • Is there anything you still want to say to me?
  • What is something you appreciated about me?
  • When did you know it was over?
  • Do you ever think about me?
  • What would you change if we could go back?
  • What is a moment you were proud of us?
  • Do you forgive me for anything?
  • What do you hope for me now?
  • What is the lesson you took from us?
  • What is something you miss?
  • What is something you do not miss?
  • Are you happy now?

How to actually use these

You have two easy options. Post one as a Story prompt and let people reply anonymously through your link, or send your link to a specific person and ask them to answer honestly since it is anonymous.

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Frequently asked questions

What are good anonymous questions to ask your ex?

Pick questions that are honest and closure-seeking, like the 20 above. Open, specific questions get more honest answers than yes/no ones.

How do I ask them anonymously?

Share a PlsConfess link and people can answer without you knowing who they are, or send it to someone so they can reply anonymously.

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